Most of us take no time to rant about how a long distance relationship is hard and demanding. It takes away most of the things that you share with that someone you love. But, for once, let’s move over and talk about long distance friendships. In life we make many friends but very few of them share a bond that is connected by souls. That’s why we call them soul besties. And when that soul bestie and you get separated through distance it’s not easy. Let’s face it, long distance friendships need to be addressed as often as any other relationship. We need to finally stop taking our long distance besties for granted.
You’ve been through many things together, from good days to rainy days, from silly days to proud moments. Haven’t we all craved for that one shoulder which always slides in right next to you when you need it the most? So when that bestie turns into a long distance bestie, life takes a drastic turn.
Dear bestie, I miss you when I am happy
It is easy to miss people when you are sad or in trouble, but if you miss someone while your are happy, that is a true relationship. In moments when your heart knows no bounds, you just want to jump higher with your bestie. In this long distance, I miss your hugs.
Because there’s always comfort in your words
No matter who says what, when we hear our bestie talk, everything gets better. While you are trying to fix your relationship, she soothes you. In times of crisis, her words are all you need to hold on for a while longer. In all those moments where you question your abilities, she will be right there to prove your worth.
Friendship, like love, needs its own space
When we are ready to give enough space to our boyfriends or girlfriends, we should also be ready to do the same for our besties. If long distance relationships are hard, so are friendships. If your bestie needs some lone time, give it, because in the end all that matters is the time you spend together. Appreciate it, value it, cherish it.
Don’t wait too long to tell your bestie that you love her, that no matter what happens you will always be together. Appreciate the little positives, eliminate the negatives, spread some love and laugh while you can!